Last updated November 11, 2026
These terms are an agreement between you and DateorFriend ("we", "us"). By using the app you agree to them. If you don't agree, please don't use DateorFriend.
Members post plans. Other members respond as a date or as a friend. The host has 25 hours to answer each response (more if they choose Maybe), after which the response expires. Once accepted, both people can chat and are expected to show up. After the date, each person rates whether the other showed up, and that record appears on their profile.
You agree not to:
We may remove content, limit features, or suspend or ban accounts that break these rules, with or without notice.
We verify identities, but we don't run criminal background checks, and we can't guarantee how anyone will behave. Meet in public places, tell a friend where you're going, arrange your own transportation, and report anyone who makes you uncomfortable. You are responsible for your own interactions with other members.
You own what you post. You give us permission to store it, show it to other members, and use it to run and improve DateorFriend. You're responsible for making sure you have the right to post it.
Paid plans are sold through Apple and renew automatically until you cancel in your Apple ID settings at least 24 hours before the renewal date. Prices are shown in the app before you buy. Refunds are handled by Apple under its policies. Features of each plan may change over time.
You can delete your account at any time in the app. We may suspend or end your account if you break these terms or to protect other members.
DateorFriend is provided "as is," without warranties of any kind. To the fullest extent the law allows, we aren't liable for indirect or consequential damages, or for the conduct of any member, on or off the app. Our total liability to you for any claim is limited to the amount you paid us in the 12 months before the claim, or $50 if you haven't paid us anything.
These terms are governed by the laws of the State of Texas. Any dispute will be handled in the state or federal courts located in Harris County, Texas, unless the law requires otherwise.
We may update these terms. If the changes are meaningful, we'll tell you in the app before they take effect. Continuing to use DateorFriend after that means you accept them.